Fraud Awareness For Older Adults

Fraud Awareness For Older Adults

Marsha’s Elderly Mothers’ Fraud Experience

Marsha was growing increasingly uneasy with her mother’s finances. Based on bank statements Marsha was able to examine once a month, money was disappearing from her mother’s bank account more quickly than it should have.

Marsha’s mother Edith, 84, lived alone in an old beach house overlooking the sea in White Rock. Marsha lived in Qualicum, on Vancouver Island. A trip to visit her mother took at least five hours on a good day.

Marsha was an only child, busy with her career as a realtor, and with her family on Vancouver Island. She was unwilling to brave the overnight journey to White Rock more than once a month.

On monthly trips to White Rock, Marsha took her mother to doctor appointments and to the bank, as well as grocery shopping. But, when Marsha wasn’t there, which was most of the time, Edith relied on a large circle of friends she had made in White Rock’s art community to run errands and get food.

And that’s where the trouble began.

“Edith would ‘tip’ or essentially pay people to run errands for her, and this tip didn’t include gas for the car,” says Marsha. “Sometimes her friends would provide real help, such as weeding and watering her large garden. But a lot of the time it was asking people to go take her to the store to buy groceries.”

What was merely annoying at first to Marsha was that whenever she visited Edith her refrigerator was crammed with food—more than Edith could possibly eat in a month. Marsha wondered why Edith’s friends could not point out that she didn’t need any more food.

Marsha also started to wonder how much money these “tips” might actually be. Money was draining from Edith’s account faster than it should have. Edith had few expenses, and the ones she did have, such as utility and property tax payments, were easy to track.

How a favour turned into fraud

It was quite a shock when Marsha discovered her mother tips. Edith had written a personal cheque to one of her “friends”—someone Marsha had never heard of―for $500.

“He always drives me to the grocery store and makes sure I’m fed,” Edith had said. “When he said he needed a small loan to pay the rent I really couldn’t refuse.”

Marsha realized she had a problem. Edith’s trusting nature was allowing just about anyone to take advantage of her.

We “Grow to Trust” As We Grow Older

It’s generally understood that people “grow to trust” as they get older. As people age, positive experiences over a lifetime make people less suspicious. Later in life we may be more likely to see the best in other people and forgive the little letdowns.

But a trusting nature in later life can have a dark side.

Researchers have observed that older people may not be able to identify visual untrustworthy cues. It’s a neurological change that occurs in the brain’s insular cortex as we age. The insular cortex is responsible self-awareness, cognitive functioning, and how we experience interpersonal relationships.

Older adults are still adept at identifying people judged to be trustworthy or neutral, but much more likely to miss signs of those who may be untrustworthy.

This neurological change, combined with a bias towards positive emotional experience (often called the “positivity effect”). It keeps older people from recognizing negative cues and from keeping safe.

Fraud: the Number-One Crime Experienced By Older Canadians

This sort of cognitive decline provides some very real risks for seniors and challenges for their family members.

Fraud is the number one crime experienced by older Canadians. According to the Canadian government, financial abuse of a senior involves the misuse of an older adult’s money or belongings by a person the senior trusts.

Fraud can also occur as part of an ongoing relationship, similar to Edith’s case.

The “tips” Edith was paying for help running unnecessary errands were relentlessly draining her bank account.

Marsha Seeks Help For Fraud

Marsha contacted her mother’s credit union, as well as a lawyer for advice. The quickest way to protect her mother’s finances would be for Edith to gain power of attorney over her mother’s accounts.

She had more control on mother’s finances, making it more difficult to withdraw larger sums of money. The lawyer also suggested incapacity planning that included an enduring power of attorney, giving Edith greater control and oversight of her mother’s finances.

Marsha also realized that her mother needed some kind of personal home care—a professional caregiver who would be tasked with grocery shopping and cooking, and also helping run the errands that Edith’s “friends” had been doing for her… while draining her bank account.

Most importantly, a health care worker would provide Edith with some sort of companionship based on trust.

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